The Highly Sensitive Person (HSP)

You feel deeply, think deeply, and notice what others miss. This is your strength—not a flaw.

Are you a highly sensitive person?

Research shows that 15-20% of the population are "highly sensitive;" they have a trait called Sensory Processing Sensitivity (SPS). Those with the SPS trait have a more sensitive nervous system which allows them to pick up on subtleties in their environment and find deeper meaning in the information they process. As a result, HSPs may become overwhelmed and have intense responses or reactivities (internal and/or external).

The last 20 years of research have revealed some remarkable benefits to those who inherited the trait (such as heightened intuition, imagination, and creativity) and also correlations between the trait and certain mental health challenges (such as being at higher risk for anxiety, depression, and some personality disorders).

Because SPS is a trait (not a condition or disorder), there is no clinical diagnosis for it. Rather, it is identified in a self-assessment— a questionnaire that includes the most commonly known characteristics of the trait.

NOTE: The above content for this section is courtesy of The Nickerson Institute of Integrative Health Training.

🌸 You might be an HSP if…

💫 Sensory Sensitivity

  • Noisy, chaotic places quickly overwhelm me.

  • Bright or flashing lights make me uncomfortable.

  • Strong scents are distracting or even nauseating.

  • I’m easily startled by loud noises or sudden changes.

  • I feel anxious or drained in cluttered, messy environments.

🌱 Need for Solitude & Restoration

  • I need alone time to recharge—it’s non-negotiable.

  • I feel overwhelmed when I have too many obligations or decisions to make.

  • I don’t perform well when being watched or judged.

  • Nature and animals bring me peace and grounding.

💗 Emotional Empathy & Depth

  • I often absorb the emotions of those around me.

  • I feel deeply hurt by criticism or harsh words.

  • I worry about disappointing or hurting others.

  • I avoid violent or emotionally intense media because it affects me deeply.

  • I feel emotional reactions very intensely—both highs and lows.

🎨 Creativity & Intuition

  • I love to daydream and often escape into my imagination.

  • I consider myself highly creative and reflective.

  • I notice subtle details that others might miss.

How can Counseling or Psychotherapy help?

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If you identify with being an HSP, you probably know all too well the daily struggles of being overstimulated in a high sensory environment, feeling emotionally overwhelmed, being affected by the emotions of others, and generally feeling like you don't have control over your feelings or life.

From a social-emotional viewpoint, these factors can affect self-esteem, interpersonal relationships, boundaries, and identity. Depending on how long and how intensive the experiences, and how well they were managed, they may result in anxiety, depression, or a personality disorder. Or some may simply find that life is more of a struggle than it should be.

Of course, while the SPS trait is separate from any mental health condition or disorder, it still contributes to many facets of the quality of one's mental health and outlook on life.

For example, if you think of two people standing on opposing mountaintops staring down at the same valley, they will see very different things. So, too, your world (your childhood, beliefs, behaviors, and relationships) will look quite different once it is viewed from the perspective of the HSP mountaintop. This is partly what happens in counseling. We will help you to consider your life from a new perspective.

In addition to helping you reframe your experiences from the HSP perspective, you will acquire tools in counseling to help you shift from a reactive state (overwhelmed, negative feelings and responses) to a more proactive state (being better prepared to handle what comes your way and taking control over key areas of your life).

NOTE: The above content for this section is courtesy of The Nickerson Institute of Integrative Health Training.

“The truly creative mind in any field is no more than this: A human creature born abnormally, inhumanly sensitive. To him... a touch is a blow, a sound is a noise, a misfortune is a tragedy, a joy is an ecstasy, a friend is a lover, a lover is a god, and failure is death. Add to this cruelly delicate organism the overpowering necessity to create, create, create -- so that without the creating of music or poetry or books or buildings or something of meaning, his very breath is cut off from him. He must create, must pour out creation. By some strange, unknown, inward urgency he is not really alive unless he is creating.”

— Pearl S. Buck

FAQs about HSPs

Sensitivity is a trait, not a disorder

High sensitivity is a scientifically recognized personality trait—also known as Sensory Processing Sensitivity—not a diagnosis or flaw.

HSPs feel emotions more intensely

HSPs often experience both joy and sorrow more deeply than others. They may cry easily, feel profound empathy, or be deeply moved by art, music, or nature.

HSPs process deeply

Highly sensitive people have more active brain regions associated with awareness, empathy, and emotion. They tend to reflect deeply before acting and are attuned to subtle details others may miss.

About 15–20% of the population is highly sensitive

This trait is found across cultures and in both men and women. It is also present in over 100 species, suggesting it’s an evolutionary survival strategy.

Overstimulation is common

Because HSPs take in more sensory and emotional information, they can become overwhelmed by loud environments, chaos, or emotional intensity and need more quiet time to recharge.

With support, HSPs thrive

When understood and nurtured, HSPs can flourish in relationships, work, and creativity. Therapy can help them develop boundaries, regulate emotions, and embrace their sensitivity as a strength.

📞 Let’s Connect

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